“Another world is not only possible, she is on her way. On a quiet day, I can hear her breathing.”
ARUNDHATI ROY
Why a woman’s guide?
WHEN WE TALK about creativity we talk about universal truths, right? Yes, and no. The deep truths of creativity are universal. But the stories about the artist in our culture are not. They’re stories about the male artist. The path of the lone genius, the starving artist, the irreverent rebel. All male. Not available to women, or only available at a great cost.
I want to talk about a different path. I want to take into account all the specific circumstances and challenges we face; not just because we are artists, but because we are female artists, living and working in a patriarchal world.
I believe gender is a sliding scale and that all of us find ourselves somewhere along it; sometimes in accordance with traditional conceptions about what it means to be male or female, sometimes contrary to those conceptions.
I’d love a world where it doesn’t matter whether I’m a man or a woman, where the feminine and the masculine in me can blend in whatever proportions and I won’t be labelled because of it. But that’s not the case. From the moment we are born we are categorised as either or. Should we find ourselves somewhere in the middle, we are pushed – sometimes forced – to adjust. Should we find ourselves unable to adjust, we will find ourselves marginalised.
I believe that gender shouldn’t matter, just as I believe race or class shouldn’t matter, but we live in a world where it does matter. I’ve been raised a woman in a world where being a woman means doing and being certain things and not others. I’ve been raised in a world where men structurally hold the majority of power – politically, religiously, financially, militarily, as well as in the family.
This doesn’t mean that all men hold actual positions of power, or that all women start on an equal footing. Cultural and societal power structures make up a complex web of intersecting identities and privileges. I can’t assume that my experience is exactly the same as that of every woman. But what I can say is that regardless of our individual experiences as women, the qualities and traits we associate with the feminine are less valued than the qualities and traits we associate with the masculine. And since we have equated the feminine with woman, and the masculine with man, women are less valued than men.
To ignore this is to ignore my reality. If I wrote a book about the creative life without taking into account the circumstances and challenges that make my path different from that of my male peers, I would leave out the truth of my actual experience. I want to address those challenges and obstacles and I can’t do that if I don’t bring them into the conversation.
What are those challenges and circumstances? Well, where to start?
For women, it has been a long and arduous journey, even to be recognised as artists to begin with. It’s a fairly recent thing for us to be allowed into the public creative arenas. In the 17th century, actors playing female