Call me, and I’ll cum ...
My name is Ana. For about 15 years, I worked as a call girl/escort in the capital of Brazil. I also want to state that I’m quite frank about my stuff and personal views. Some of you may also be upset over the fact that I both joined and left the industry by my own will and choice, and with flag on top in both regards. To my great surprise, as we’re actually living in the 21st Century (duh, dude!), there are still a lot of stigmatisations, myths, lies and prejudices surrounding in particular girls (and sometimes even boys) in the sex industry such as porn or escort. Both men and women, feminists and moralists, politicians and lobbyists, psychologists and social workers, tend to state, being convinced it’s the whole truth and nothing but the truth, that in particular all girls doing this must be victims, having some kind of diagnosis or had a traumatised or violent background with parents neglecting or partners punishing them, or at least some kind of dysfunctional situation more or less forcing them to do this sex work, as it is predicted to be against their will and nature.
I had none of these predictions! And I can actually say, without any hesitation, that I was proud to be part of the sex industry for 15 years, and I still am! Proud of it, that is.
I had loving and caring parents, who are still married, I graduated from school with good grades, I had lots of friends, activities, no diagnosis, etc. So, why, oh why, can’t a girl just be allowed to explore her fantasies, then, and to have some fun while doing it? To me, it was the most natural and beautiful thing in the world, celebrating my own sexuality as a woman and doing so on my own conditions. Neither men, nor women, were allowed to interfere, judge, control or mess with my decisions! Ever heard the expression “only God can judge you”? To me it’s true, even though I can’t say I’m going to church every week.
Sure, there are girls (and boys) in the sex business being forced to do it by trafficking, having been abused, having bad parents or relations, diagnosis, doing it for alcohol, drugs, guys (or girls) or criminal networks, etc. S