Prologue
By the time they had finished fourth grade, Stephen Buja and Jeremiah Pinder had become inseparable friends. Stephen’s parents-- Natasha and Gregory Buja—- easily accepted that the two children shared a bond, and gave in to the notion that they would often have to include Jeremiah in their family plans. Gregory, a consultant for a weapons development corporation, encouraged the boys to play together because he secretly hoped Jeremiah’s natural athleticism would help propel his frail son into being tougher and more into sports.
Unfortunately, it was much harder for Jeremiah’s mother, Gail, to accept the situation. Gail was a single parent, having been abandoned by Jeremiah’s useless father before her son’s eighth birthday. She was so busy working the two jobs she needed to cover the household expenses and keep Jeremiah in private school that she knew nothing of Stephen until both boys were thirteen. The discovery led to an awkward period where Gail Pinder, convinced that her son would be seen as a charity case, tried to limit the amount of time her son spent with the Buja family.
“Don’t be spending all day at that white boy’s house,” Gail would shout after Jeremiah as he was on his way out the front door to do just that.
It would take some time for Gail Pinder to become comfortable with their friendship, and it would take even longer for Gregory Buja to give up his dreams of the two boys becoming the next Karl Malone and John Stockton. Thankfully, by senior year of high school, all of the parents were on the same page as the two boys, who only wanted to maintain their friendship without anyone else’s silly expectations being foisted upon them.
They were both accepted at Boston College. Stephen, always something of a math wiz, went into engineering and web design, while Jeremiah double majored in journalism and African-American studies. They rented a house together in the middle of their freshman year, threw parties, dated various women, and quickly acquired a sense of how to be grown men who pay their bills on time and live responsibly.
About a year after college, Stephen met an attractive, intelligent, Chinese woman named Betsy. After experiencing some of the usual ups and downs that occur between a man and