In the early summer of 2004, I had just become single again and I had to start a new life. I had been in a relationship for 8 years and 6 months. There had been events that changed everything in my life.

I had experienced a girlfriend being unfaithful: she claimed I had done the same with one of my friends over a longer period of time. The state of mind I now stood in would prove to be an advantage, even though I could not see it at the time. I had been hurt and tried to move forward in my life, even though it was difficult.

I found that the friends I’d had, turned their backs on me and I stood alone in the world. My former girlfriend had spread a lot of rumors, and they chose to believe them. I think it was hard because I did not get the opportunity to give my side of the story. I’d had enough. That hit me the hardest. It was perhaps more because people chose to believe what my former girlfriend said, and did not ask themselves any questions. They could have asked me their questions so they could have gotten the whole story, viewed from both sides.

It is probably this part of my life that caused me to want to explore things, instead of just believing what I was told. This was probably what got me to be a part of this universe around sugardating and tackling the myths surrounding this universe. I had to find me a completely new circle of people I could hang out with and make a new start. It was here I had an advantage, because it has never been difficult for me to adapt myself and take in new opportunities.

I was invited into a club. A gentleman’s club, where we met in private every Wednesday, and sat enjoying ourselves. We talked about everything between heaven and earth and the problems that might have been associated with everyone´s walk of life.

They also tried to mix a water pipe (Hookah) during our conversation. It was quite common, but I said no to the drugs as I do not use them. I just had beer. Just plain beer and nothing special about it, but it tasted extremely well when it was just above ice-cold. There were a lot of good moments in these people's company, and I'm pretty grateful that I have this memory and that they treated me so well. My point of view revolved around my complete break with my old network and with my former girlfriend.

We were facing a lot of different ideas and thoughts, and some of them began to slowly take form inside my mind. I thought about what I wanted in life, having just turned 30 years old, and now the world was open to me once again. It was the thought that life was an adventure and I was the creator of my own life and what it should contain.

It was incredibly rewarding to turn various ideas over in my mind, since this group talked about many differen